Signs of Child Regression

Child development is not linear. While there are many things that children master and never forget, there are also many times a child will stop doing something for a while, but they regress later. Sometimes this is a very typical part of childhood. However, sometimes, it is a sign of something more.

Reasons for Child Regression

Regression can occur for many reasons. However, most of the time, it is essentially related to stress, either physical or emotional. Stress is normal for children and adults, but when it is too much, children will sometimes regress. Regression may also be across the board or in one or two areas. While we do not know what will cause one child to regress and not another, we do know what the symptoms of regression are.

Signs of Child Regression

The following signs may be seen in many children, but each child might have his or her own combination of signs. One child may show several signs while another has just one or two.

Potty Accidents

Children will sometimes begin having toileting accidents after weeks or months without one. One accident is not a sign of trouble, though. Sometimes kids just don’t feel well or aren’t ready to stop playing, and accidents happen. Other times, bathrooms are just not accessible, and they can’t hold it long enough. Children who begin having consistent accidents may have some regression.

Outbursts

Emotional outbursts can also be a problem. Toddlers and young children will have some tantrums. These behaviors are part of growing up and learning who they are. However, like potty training, after weeks or months with few tantrums, sudden increases in these behaviors can signal regression in development.

Severe Separation Anxiety

When children suddenly can’t leave mom and dad, this is a sure sign that there is something emotional at play. Separation anxiety is typical around one-to-one-and-a-half years old. After three years old, separation anxiety should be over, for the most part. Separation anxiety can briefly resurface at the beginning of a new school year or when changing childcare facilities. These are stressors, but the separation anxiety should pass relatively quickly. If it doesn’t, they may be having some issues with regression.

What Can I Do?

If your child starts regressing, you may be wondering what you can do. The first thing you can do is consider the regression and when it began. You need to try to locate the trigger. While you may not be able to stop the trigger, you can address it with your child or mental health professional. If the trigger is a separation or divorce of loved ones or parents, you can’t and shouldn’t necessarily stop it. You should talk to your child about their fears and concerns. Children are often concerned that this is their fault or that they could have stopped it. Helping them see their loved ones love them very much can put their minds at ease. If it is a parental separation, try your best to present a united front before your child. Sometimes, you just have to be nicer than you want to be. If the problem is beyond your area of expertise and love and encouragement don’t seem to help, you should contact a mental health professional who specializes in child therapy and trauma. You are a great parent. You will find what is best for your child.

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